Do you ever feel like your past trauma is keeping the lid tight on your pleasure?
If you’re like most trauma survivors or newbies to BDSM, the current kink scene probably feels more like a minefield rather than chock-full of the fun, healing, and liberation your heart truly desires.
In fact, negotiating a scene or attending a play party might be so overwhelming that your body goes into lockdown mode and you run in the opposite direction of the very things you want.
Sure, there’s a big part of you that wants to sprint towards sexy, kinky experiences with open arms, but another part (the one hiding under the covers) is hitting the emergency brake hard and fast without your consent.
The worst part?
This tug-of-war has probably been happening for years (yes, plural), with little-to-no visible progress, leaving you feeling stuck in place, yearning for connections and experiences that feel perpetually out of reach.
Imagine a world where you finally feel free to explore your deepest desires and everything sex*, intimate relationships, and BDSM have to offer.
A world where you:
- Confidently attend BDSM events by yourself or with a partner because you know the ropes (pun intended 😉), and you feel comfortable communicating your kinky limits.
- Easily connect with kinky partners through FetLife, DMs, and other platforms… without attracting (or being) a creep.
- Rock your lovers’ worlds because you have the tatical skills, as well as the ability to be deeply, utterly present.
No more shame. No more fear. No more anxiety.
No more dreading sex or your upcoming date night (or attending a play party alone).
And most of all, no more wondering if you’re ever going to find a scene partner, let alone a Dom or sub, who feels like a match made in kinky heaven. 😇
Just confidence, pleasure, and kinktastic fun. 😉
Introducing the
Spring 2025 Kinky Masterclass Pass
Your front-row (virtual) ticket to a spring season filled with learning, growth, and transformation in the sexy realm of ethical kink and BDSM.
With this pass, you’ll get lifetime access to a curated series of 10 live workshops designed to help sexual trauma survivors, BDSM newbies, and kinksters like you create thriving, fulfilling relationships and dynamics.
Here are all the classes you get access to:
Class is in session! Here’s the full LIVE schedule of the classes you’ll get access to. Recordings will be available within 48 hours (or 2 business days) of airing.
- Wednesday, April 2: BDSM Basics: How to Join Your Local Kink Community (Even as a Single Person
- Wednesday, April 9: Abradcadabra: Sex Magic for Trauma Healing And Manifestation
- Wednesday, April 16: Get Back to Green Jar: Simple Strategies to Regulate Your Nervous System (When You Need It Most)
- Wednesday, April 30: BDSM Basics: How to Create an Epic FetLife Profile That Showcases Your Authentic Self
- Wednesday, May 7: Kinky Events Demystifyed: How to Navigate Your First (or Next) Play Party or BDSM Retreat
- Wednesday, May 14: Soulgasm: Incorporating Ethical Energy Play into BDSM and the Bedroom
- Wednesday, May 21: Sexbots Unleashed: Using AI for Connection, Intimacy, and BDSM Training
- Wednesday, May 28: Kinky RPGs Unlocked: Creating Authentic Roleplays in the Bedroom and the Dungeon
- Wednesday, June 4: Next-Level Nookie: Simple Strategies for Improving Your Sex Life
- Wednesday, June 11: Anal Play for Abundance: Opening Your Root Chakra and Clearing Money Blocks Through Sexy Play
Class is in session... will you join us?
Your front-row (virtual) ticket to a spring season filled with learning, growth, and transformation in the sexy realm of ethical kink and BDSM.
With this pass, you’ll get lifetime access to a curated series of 10 live workshops designed to help sexual trauma survivors, BDSM newbies, and kinksters like you create thriving, fulfilling relationships and dynamics.
Meet your teacher
Oh, hello there!
I’m Zeva, a holistic kink/BDSM coach who’s helped dozens of clients and hundreds of students just like you heal from sexual trauma and get started on (or dive deeper into) their kink/BDSM journey.
After growing up Catholic, I had soooooo much to unpack about my sexuality, but no one to guide me. Eventually, after years of reading the same Internet blogs about sex and BDSM (which still really didn’t tell me what to expect), I took the plunge and joined my local community (as a single person) in early 2018.
Since then, I’ve attended countless play parties and multiple BDSM conferences, created trauma-sensitive resources for kinksters, taught about energy play in my local scene, and appeared on several podcasts talking about conscious kink, consent, and energy play.
And now, I’m ready (and super jazzed) to share everything I’ve learned about BDSM, sexuality, and trauma healing over the past 7 years with you.
Are you ready to dive in?
This is for you if...
- You’re a trauma survivor looking to reclaim or experience more sexual pleasure.
- You’re new to kink and wondering how to get started with BDSM.
- You’re an experienced kinkster seeking deeper, more meaningful dynamics.
- You’re tired of hitting invisible barriers in your sexual healing and exploration.
- You’re ready to finally explore those taboo desires you’ve had for years.
This is NOT for you if...
- You DON’T want more pleasure and fun in your life.
- You have nothing more to learn about kink/BDSM, sexuality, or trauma healing.
- You’re looking for 1:1 support — if that’s the case, book a BDSM Breakthrough session with me instead.
- You’re not willing to do uncomfortable self-reflection in order to identify what’s keeping you stuck.
- You’re still in crisis mode around your sexual trauma — while I make every effort to be trauma-sensitive, you’d be better served by the Sexual Healing Bundle.
By the end of June, you will be able to:
- Safely and confidently join your local kink community (even if you’re single)
- Harness sexual energy for trauma healing and manifestation
- Stay grounded and present (even in uncomfortable situations) with simple strategies
- Create a FetLife profile that truly represents you
- Make the most of play parties and BDSM conferences & retreats
- Leverage AI technology for deeper connection and training
- Unlock the power of roleplay in your intimate and kinky encounters
- Elevate your sex life with straightforward strategies
- Open up new realms of pleasure and prosperity through anal play
Pricing
For less than $20 each, you’ll get lifetime access to all 10 workshops, each designed to guide you from curiosity to confidence in your kink and BDSM journey. Plus, the exclusive pay-in-full bonus will supercharge your transformation.
As individual workshops, these classes will be $40 each on pre-sale. With this all-access pass, you save $125.
Or, think of this this way… if there’s at least 5 workshops you’re interested in, you’re better off getting the 2025 Spring Masterclass Pass so you get lifetime access to all of them… and spend less. 💸
Total, the retail value of The Kinky Healing Vault is $400.
Save 50% when you get the Masterclass Pass.
Pay in Full: $195
BONUS: get my signature mini-course resource, the Better BDSM Limit List (value: $47).
Split Pay: $98 x 2
Most flexible payment option, plus you still get access to all 10 of the workshops. No credit check.
Student results & feedback
Because this is a new offer, these are a couple of examples from other offers that I’ve led in the past, as well as transformations that my 1:1 clients have experienced.
“An informative and fun class.”
I would like to add that your personal shares and the experience that you have earned in this area [trauma healing, BDSM] combined with an engaging personality made for a fun and informative class… I noted the skill at presenting the material that you wished to cover.
“Our sex life is amazing after our session.”
Thank you. More amazing things are happening. Like I am on the alert to signs. Our sex life is amazing after our session.
“Working with Zeva for the past 3 years has been worth every penny.”
“Working with Zeva for the past three years has been worth every penny. During that time, I left a job I didn’t like, began helping others heal, and have explored parts of my sexuality that I felt ashamed of. This is just what my soul needed.”
“Since my session, I’ve had better sex, and more self-confidence.”
“Zeva exceeded my expectations and did an amazing job making me feel comfortable talking about sensitive issues. Since my session, I’ve already had much better communication, better sex, and more self-confidence.”
“I’ve created amazing relationships and love myself more than ever before.”
“I was single for a really long time. Coaching with Zeva has helped me release fear, anxiety… so much of what I’ve been holding onto, and I feel so light. Since working with Zeva, I’ve created amazing relationships, and I love myself more than ever before.”
“I’ve seen immediate results, and I’m moving at a very fast pace.”
“It has just been phenomenal working with Zeva and healing my past relationship trauma. I’ve seen immediate results, and I’m moving at a very fast pace… I’ve learned to communicate more effectively, and that’s helped me create healthier relationships.”
Answers to your ❤️🔥 burning ❤️🔥 desires questions
What if I'm new to kink/BDSM?
Absolutely no worries! This series is designed for both newbies and experienced kinksters alike, offering foundational knowledge and advanced insights.
Are the workshops live? Can I rewatch them?
Yes, all workshops are live to foster a sense of community and real-time learning. Plus, you’ll get lifetime access to the recordings to rewatch at your leisure.
Are all these workshops suitable for sexual trauma survivors?
While everyone’s healing journey is unique, these workshops are crafted with sensitivity and inclusivity at their core, aiming to support a wide range of experiences.
That said, if you’re still in crisis mode or are wanting something gentler, I’d recommend the Sexual Healing Bundle.
How can I make sure this is the right investment for me?
I strongly suggest you check in with your intuition and your body. You can also hit me up via email (or on Voxer, @thezeva), and I’ll be happy to help you make an aligned decision for you right now.
But TL;DR: if you’re ready to explore and expand in a supportive environment, this is for you.
Can I buy access to individual trainings?
Yes, you absolutely can. I’ll be selling access to each of the standalone trainings closer to their live training dates. Most workshops will cost $40 to attend live.
What does the pay-in-full bonus include?
With the pay-in-full bonus, you’ll get access to the Better BDSM Limit List (retail value: $47), my signature trauma-sensitive mini-course and resource.
It will supercharge your ability (and confidence) with joining the kink community and negotiating some kinky scenes.
Can I interact with the creator and other participants?
Absolutely! The live sessions will happen over Zoom, and for many of them we’ll have breakout rooms, so there’ll be plenty of time for support and connection.
I have another question that’s not answered here.
That’s great! Send me an email at he***@co*******************.com, and I’ll respond to it lickety-split. 😉
Here’s what’s waiting for you on the other side of the rainbow dungeon.
- Confidence and knowledge to get started with BDSM safely and ethically, including knowing how to navigate FetLife and attend your first (or next) BDSM play party
- Virtual and IRL relationships that help you meet your kinky needs, no matter how taboo your desire and how rural your environment
- Dynamic, empowering BDSM relationships (rooted in love and respect) that resonate with your deepest desires.
- Find peace with yourself and your body, rather than letting trauma dictate your life and what you can or cannot do.
- Uplevel your current sex life — I’ve got some next-level, secret strategies I’ll be sharing with you to make your sex not only connective but soulgasmic.
Your (Kinky) Spring Semester Awaits!
Join us in this kinky virtual classroom where you’ll spend your finally moving past trauma safely and confidently join your local kink community (even if you’re single), elevate your sex life, and open up new realms of pleasure and abundance.